A Little About Us...

A Little About Us...

Hi, we are Tim and Becky!

We are ordinary people who have been faced with extraordinary challenges.

These challenges have dramatically impacted the way we live our lives.

Not too long ago, our lives looked completely different than they do now.

We were focused on managing the demands of family life, and building a global business.

Our daughters, McKinzely and Elexia were busy with school. Then activities like gymnastics and dance filled our evenings.

We did our best as a family to play as hard as we worked. Often weekends would find us out hiking or on bike rides, soaking up all that nature has to offer.

The Plan...

We are always looking for ways to grow and become better.

In 2018 at a conference in Las Vegas we heard a message that forever changed us.

So, we invested heavily in our skill development. Spending hundreds of hours to become certified in a specialized life skills modality.

This modality is based on over 37 years of behavioral research. It breaks down how the brain works, and the nuts and bolts of not what, but How to think for success.

The skills we learned allowed us to be even more effective in our lives. Not only as business coaches, but as parents, individuals and as a couple.

Needless to say at this point our business was growing, and Life was going great!

To top it off, Becky was contracted as a mentor for an elite educational marketing company. Where she continues to help entrepreneurs crush their goals.

The Unexpected...

Then on May 11th 2020 the day after Mothers Day, life took a devastating turn.

We tragically lost both of our girls in a freak accident.

In an Instant we found ourselves working to re-establish the purpose of our lives. Daily leaning on the skills we had honed for helping entrepreneurs. Using them minute by minute.

As we each intentionally focus on these simple but powerful principles. Our lives have changed.

People watching have often told us that they are amazed at the things that we've been able to accomplish.

Not just what we've done, but the speed in which it seems we are working through such a traumatic & life shattering event.

One question we often get is "how do you do it?"

The answer?

There were days and weeks filled with the kind of pain and transformation you can’t prepare for. BUT, As we faced the unimaginable, we began developing a process—individually and together—that helped us not only survive, but increase the speed of our healing, one step at a time.


Becky captured that raw, tender first year in her book Swept Away: A True Story of Grief & Acceptance, written to share the truth of what it’s like to navigate overwhelming loss—and how even in the darkest places, it’s possible to find light again.

Since then, we’ve had the privilege of sharing our story as guests on podcasts across the globe, and we’ve spoken to audiences as inspirational speakers, helping others feel seen, understood, and less alone.

NOW...

Our focus now is helping others navigate their own emotional struggles.

Helping them establish their own personalized process. This allows them to re-define their purpose, feel peace and face life with confidence.

When faced with grief, trauma or fear and anxiety it can feel like the biggest form of adversity you will ever face. For many it will be. The intense emotions can feel overwhelming, crippling and defeating.

But it doesn't have to be that way.

​​If you are tired of feeling stuck, and ready for change then you are in the right place!

We are grateful you are here.

-Tim & Becky

"Transforming your life comes from doing two main things. First you must identify what is keeping you stuck. Then clarify what actions you need to take to make the shift."

-Tim & Becky Graff

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