January 14-16, 2026
You know that moment when your chest gets tight and everyone's advice stops working?
When "just breathe" makes you more aware of how hard it is to breathe?
This 3-day challenge teaches you what to do in those moments.
Not mindset work. Not therapy. Not toxic positivity.
Behavior-first tools that work WITH your emotions to give you control when grief, fear, and anxiety hit hardest.
The Emotional Control Challenge
When life gets heavy, take back control instead of falling apart.
NOTHING PREPARES YOU FOR THE MOMENT EVERYTHING CHANGES
The moment your chest gets so tight you can't breathe.
The moment someone asks, 'Are you okay?' and you feel your body tense as you lie. Saying 'I'm fine' while everything inside you is screaming. Smiling while you're drowning because explaining what's really happening feels impossible.
The moment you're sitting in your car, unable to go inside because everything feels too heavy.
Most people tell you to breathe. To journal. To think positive.
As if you could think your way out of a body that's already decided you're in danger.
By the time you realize what's happening, your heart's already hammering, your thoughts are spinning, and your body's bracing for impact. It feels like something terrible is about to happen.
That's not you breaking down. That's your nervous system doing exactly what it was designed to do.
You can't outthink biology. But you CAN work with it.
WHY THIS CHALLENGE WORKS
This is Functional Emotional Resilience - behavior-first tools that work WITH your emotions, not against them. Not stoicism. Not toxic positivity. Just what works and what YOU can control.
You don't need someone telling you that everything happens for a reason.
You don't need to "manifest" calm.
You need to understand what's actually happening inside you. What you can control versus what you're wasting energy on. The difference between what happened and the story that's torturing you.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
• You lie awake at 2am replaying conversations that ended hours ago
• You sit in parking lots trying to pull yourself together before going inside
• Your chest gets tight in meetings and you don't know why
• You snap at people you love then hate yourself for it
• You say "I'm fine" but you're screaming inside
• Sunday nights fill you with dread about the week ahead
• You can handle everyone else's crisis but fall apart over small things
• You're successful on paper but feel like you're failing at life
THIS ISN'T FOR YOU IF:
•You want someone else to fix it for you
• You're committed to your story of why nothing works
• You want theory without doing the work
• You need to stay comfortable in your chaos
WHAT HAPPENS OVER THESE 3 DAYS:
Day 1: Take Control by Naming What's Actually Happening
The relief when someone finally explains what that tight chest, racing mind, and sudden overwhelm actually IS, and why knowing what to call it changes everything about how you handle it.
Day 2: Regain Control by Releasing What Was Never Yours
Learn to instantly recognize the difference between what's actually your responsibility and what you've been exhausting yourself trying to control, and feel the immediate lightness when you put down what isn't yours.
Day 3: Control Your Response by Breaking the Story Loop
Understand why the story in your head hurts worse than what actually happened, and master the simple framework that breaks the pattern for good.
HOW IT WORKS
January 14-16 | Main Event 7:30 PM MT / 9:30 PM ET
60 minutes live. Action items you'll use that night. 72-hour replay access.
VIP Pre-Sessions 6:30 PM MT / 8:30 PM ET (each night before the main event)
Personal coaching before we go live. Bring your specific situation.
January 17th | VIP Power Day 11am-2pm MT / 1-4pm ET
Three hours to master the tools with our direct guidance. This is where everything clicks.
CHOOSE YOUR EXPERIENCE
GENERAL ADMISSION
Learn the Tools
• 3 days of live training
• Action items that create real change
• 72-hour Post Challenge replay access
• Challenge workbook
$67 Early Bird Until Jan 10th
Then It goes to Full Price
VIP EXPERIENCE
Take control faster with
direct support
Includes General Admisson PLUS:
• 1hr Pre-challenge coaching each night
• 3-Hour Power Day
• Lifetime access to all recordings
• Direct support for YOUR specific situation
• Limited to 12 People
$197 Early Bird Until Jan 10th
Then It goes to Full Price
WHY WE'RE DIFFERENT
We didn't go looking for emotional resilience. We went looking to be more effective. Better communicators. Stronger in our relationships.
Years before tragedy touched our lives, we were already teaching these frameworks to entrepreneurs. Helping them manage how they thought, not what they thought about. More success. Better relationships. No burnout.
Then in 2020, the unthinkable happened. A flash flood swept away Becky and our daughters, McKinzley and Elexia. Our girls didn't survive.
The frameworks we taught that helped people grow their businesses, communicate better with their teams and social circles, and crush limiting beliefs that were keeping them stuck became what kept us standing.
The point isn't our tragedy. The point is, the tools work. Not just in business. But in everyday overwhelm and life-shattering loss.
You don't need to wait for the worst day of your life to learn skills that will change every day of your life, because that day might be coming. And you don't get to choose when.
These tools are for right now. For tonight, when you can't sleep. For tomorrow, when the anxiety hits. For next week, when the same pattern shows up again.
This isn't just about you; it's also about those closest to you.
THE TRUTH ABOUT LASTING CHANGE
After our girls died, the texts eventually slowed down. The meals stopped coming. Everyone else moved on.
But we were still waking up to silence.
That's when these tools mattered most.
Your struggle might not be a flash flood. Maybe it's a failing marriage...
Maybe it's anxiety that won't quit. Maybe it's burnout so deep you can't remember who you were before.
Whatever it is, these tools work when the struggle becomes your everyday.
When you're six months in and everyone's forgotten.
When you're still falling apart and there's no one left to call. Or you don't want to be a burden.
When panic hits on a Tuesday afternoon, you're supposed to just. keep. going.
When everyone thinks you should be "better by now," but you're barely holding on.
These tools work in the long haul.
In the real moments. When no one's watching and you still have to function.
Reserve Your Spot Today
Stop falling apart. Start taking control.
Early bird pricing ends January 10th at midnight MT.
Your Questions Answered
Who should attend The Emotional Control Challenge?
Anyone struggling with grief, fear, or anxiety who wants behavior-first tools to regain control (not just cope)
What is included with General Admission?
3 Days of live training, Action Items and event materials, 72-hour replay access.
What does the VIP experience offer?
Everything in General Admission Plus: 1hr Pre-session Coaching each night. 3hr Power day with direct support for YOUR specific situation. Private Q& A with Lifetime Access to all recordings. * Limited to 12 People
Is the event suitable for beginners?
Yes, This challenge is designed to meet you where you are at.
How do I register?
Click any 'Join The challenge' or 'Secure VIP Spot' button to secure your place.
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